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November 10, 2008


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Molly Brown

Okay. That was really entertaining. And probably right on. Although the romantic attached side of me likes to speculate that my husband's and my love is this divine phenomenon, that we were "meant" to be together, statistically speaking, if I had not turned around and gone back to give him my phone number that fateful day, it is quite possible that I might be with anther with whom I might have an amazing love/partnership. Its all about resonance, as far as I am concerned.

Barry Briggs

Hi Molly,
Yes, it's an entertaining bit, isn't it? He has apparently been married to the same person for a long time. Which does raise the question of "what's left after the hormones cool off?"

As a practicing person, I wonder about what it takes to stay in relationship when I don't much like the person, when I don't much like myself, when everything seems to be going wrong. It's so easy when we're cruising with "love" - and so not easy when we're struggling with projections.

Thanks for your comment!


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