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October 26, 2009


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alan faulkner

Thanks for that. I'll be turning sixty in December. Looking back at forty from this place, I remember a guy who was still slamming doors, trying to prove he was thirty. I like Ben's thoughts here but I would give that forty year old some grace for several more years. But it could be it just took me longer...anyway...very nice...
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Barry Briggs

Hi Alan, Thanks for your message! I turned 63 a few days ago - and still slam lots of doors - through my attachment to certainty and my failure to listen.

Thank you also for pointing me to your blog. I'll link to it off of my sites.

Best wishes,

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